If your guy has experienced heartbreak in the past, he may wear his wounded heart on his sleeve. Try to be cognizant and supportive of what he went through. Harsh words can wound a Pisces man deeply and he’ll be haunted by them. If you get into an argument, keep your voice down and avoid speaking in anger.
You might say something like, “I really admire how dedicated you are to your career, Paul. You inspire me to work harder every day. ” You could say, “That suit looks absolutely perfect on you. I love the cut and style, too. I can’t keep my eyes off of you!”
“Tell me about a book that changed your life as a kid. " “Who’s your favorite philosopher and why are you drawn to them?”
If he tells you he’s had a bad day, validate his emotions so he feels understood. Then, try to find the silver lining and share it with him. You might say, “I would feel down if my boss said that to me, too. But him urging you to work harder also means that he values what you’re doing. He’s depending on the work that you do and that’s a good thing. "
For example, if he shares his political views with you and you don’t identify with them, don’t dismiss what he’s saying outright. Instead, respond with something like, “You know, I’ve honestly never looked at it from that perspective before. This conversation is giving me a lot to think about. "
During these times, he wants the comfort of your presence more than anything else. For example, you can listen to music with him, share a bottle of wine, or just kick back and enjoy a good movie together.
You might say something like, “You know what I’ve always dreamed about? Being an interior designer. I’ve never felt confident enough to pursue it, though. " Pisces particularly enjoy conversations about spirituality and the mysteries of the universe, so don’t hold back. You could say something like, “This might sound strange, but I’ve always secretly thought that ‘science’ and ‘magic’ were different words that may actually describe similar phenomena. "
For example, if he’s a musician and he plays you a tune he’s been working on, tell him how awesome it sounds and encourage him to finish the composition. If your guy spends a lot of time painting in his studio, try to avoid interrupting him unless you’re bringing him a snack or a cup of tea. Later on, you can say something like, “I love how dedicated you are to your art. Have you ever thought about showing your work at a gallery? I can get in touch with a local curator I know if you’re interested. "
If there are things about himself that he isn’t ready to reveal, respect his privacy.
Another sure sign that a Pisces man is in love: not only will he intuitively know your needs, but he will always selflessly put your needs above his.
